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Solent Family Mediation assist families in conflict, specifically those separating or separating.

Our family mediation service is quicker and more affordable than heading to court. It minimizes dispute, and your household remains in control of plans over children, home and finance.

We work right across England and Wales and our family mediation service has over 30 years’ experience providing specialist, professional family mediation services.

What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation

Divorce mediation is about you and your soon to be ex-spouse choosing your own divorce and what is best for the both of you and most notably, your children. In mediation, you and your spouse meet with a neutral third party, the mediator, and with their aid, you resolve the issues you require to solve so the two of you can end your marriage as amicably and cost effective as possible. The issues covered include but at not restricted to the following:

  1. Distribution of Home (Assets/Liabilities).
  2. Kid Custody and Parenting Time.
  3. Child Support/Maintenance.
  4. Retirement.
  5. Taxes.

In mediation, the couple, with the help of the conciliator, works out contracts on the above problems. In some cases arrangements come easy, often they take time and a lot of work. That is when the arbitrator steps in when agreements are hard to reach. It is the conciliators job to keep the lines of interaction open, brainstorm ideas, truth test the couple, teach empathy and help the couple in their choice making procedure. Mediators help keep the couple concentrated on the concerns at hand, attempting not to get them off track. When divorcing couples leave track and away from the above issues throughout mediation, arguing, name-calling and bad prior memories are raised.

Mediation is private and flexible. Mediation brings about communication between the couple, which can then be used when they must talk about problems in pertaining to the kids. Mediation has the capability to help the couple find out to communicate once again, if just for the sake of the children, and make their post-divorce relationship better than their wed one.

A divorce conciliator is neutral and doesn’t “work” for either moms and dad. That means the conciliator can not offer guidance to either party. They should remain neutral no matter what the circumstance.

What the conciliator can do, however, is help the separating couple in developing concepts that can eventually lead to agreements that will stand the test of time. That free and open exchange of info maximizes both partners to work out with each other in confidence. Since both spouses are working with the same base of information, it normally takes far less time to negotiate a resolution that makes sense to both partners.

Mediation is voluntary. Mediations can be performed weekly, every 2 weeks, monthly or how ever frequently the couple desires them to be.

The length of time does divorce mediation take and what are the expenses?

The length of mediation depends on what concerns have actually been concurred to prior to mediation and those concerns that require to be resolved throughout mediation. The time spent in mediation can be lowered if you and your partner are able to come to contracts prior to mediation, or at the least, narrow down your alternatives to a few practical ones.

Typically, pre-decree divorce mediation can be completed in 4-10 sessions. Once again, how long it takes truly depends on what if any interaction there is between the separating couples and their level of animosity for each other. If either one of the spouses hesitates to budge from their specific position on a divorce problems, mediation may not be a choice for them and they might have to prosecute in court. Interaction is shut down and the battle begins when this happens.

Keep in mind, the litigated cases led to more spite and disappointment between the divorcing couples, usually leading to a lose/lose situation for both. On the other hand, couples who went through mediation felt satisfied with the contracts they had actually reached and both walked away feeling that they had gotten what they had actually desired. Who would you rather have decide what occurs with your children and properties after a divorce, you throughout mediation or lawyers and judges during a divorce in the courts?

On the other hand, mediation is personal, private and performed behind closed doors. In mediation, there are no lawyers putting up walls in between you and your partner. Mediation is about working together, doing things in the finest interests of your kids and focusing on being able to be moms and dads for your children for years to come.

Divorce mediation is about you and your quickly to be ex-spouse choosing your own divorce and what is best for the both of you and most notably, your kids. The length of mediation depends on what concerns have actually been agreed to prior to mediation and those issues that require to be resolved during mediation. The time invested in mediation can be reduced if you and your spouse are able to come to agreements prior to mediation, or at the least, narrow down your alternatives to a couple of workable ones. If either one of the spouses is unwilling to budge from their particular position on a divorce concerns, mediation may not be an alternative for them and they may have to litigate in court. Who would you rather have choose what happens with your children and assets after a divorce, you during mediation or lawyers and judges throughout a divorce in the courts?

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